i have a few people at work that are making it realy miserable. I just want some tips as to how i should sort then out. they are just generaly rude and draining on my personal energy can any one help maybe with a protection or binding. all advice welcome

talking to them about it, might be the best starting point!

I agree, or be totally rude back!!
Is it just one or two or is it the majority? It might be that you're not gelling more like congealing, and it might not be the place for you?

there are two one is the manager who is rude condecending and has a very biggoted attitude. The other thinks he is a manger and has only been there for a month and is rude agressive and has this chavy way of eye balling you as you walk past him. he has no sentce of respect or being he judges me and others at work with a narcesistic and condemming attitude.

when you put the two of them together they bully and irrotate me and other staff members, they are like dementors if anyone has read harry pottor, these are creatures that suck out all the happiness from a room or person.

befor they started working there it was a fun place to be, things got done and we socialised and became friends now its just a draining place to be. I have tryed bindings but they only last for a day then it goes back to normal.

I left a job over these sorts of issues a few years ago, and never looked back. Some people just cannot be altered, they behave as though they are still in the palyground pushing the little kids around. Bullies in other words!
Is it just you who is unhappy? If it's a few of you, then it may be worth getting together to draft something to send higher up the management chain?
I recently had an awful manager at my work who was seriously threatening my position- he's gone now, and I like to think I helped him on his way!! But, this was just 1 guy, it's much harder when it's a 2 pronged attack whcih is what you have at your work. Hmmm. Like I said, if it's not just you, and you are sure your work is good and can't be faulted, it could well be that those of you who are experiencing problems need to take it to a higher level. Or start job hunting!! Best of luck, it's a truly crappy situation to be in, stay strong. XX

Do you have union, this is bullying and should be dealt with. If there's no union, is there another manager that you get on with, a quiet word might get the stuation looked at without the hassle of a formal complaint.

Just smile at them and carry on doing your work. Make sure you do enough work so that your manager cant give you the sack. As long as your working correctly, just smile and let them carry on. Play dumb to there unhappyness. They will get bored.

i have been having troubles too with a girl who is out to ruin my reputation, mariage and friendships. Its so far got me in a right state but somewhere somehow today i just turned a turned a coner in my mind. did a protection, and empowerment spell and feeling more positive, negative energies less binding and im ready to go and face the evil little minx. . . . . i aint angry im just somehow not arsed!!!!

sometimes its worth having a right good chat to yourself, your unions, other bosses, take the moral middle gound, look the reasonable person, and wait fo the bastards to hang themselves !!!!!!!

xx hope it works out for you, life is cetainly miserable when work not working out. i agree with the others, if its not working move. thats my plan B and considering im fairly senior it will be a real blow for them. BUt fo me ill go with the flow, anything for an easy life.

Green tourmaline and an air of superior indifference helped me a little. I got so used to being the office oddball that it eventually ceased to bother me. This does sound more like bullying though and if so should be reported so it can be dealt with accordingly.

I've had pretty much the same situation at my work and instead of getting into a yelling match with this person, I decided to refuse to allow her to control the way i react to her shananigens. That's the first thing, don't allow them to psych you out. If the guy is eyeballing you, do it back, meet his eyes then see who blinks first. Most bullies are cowards at heart and they simply don't like it when challanged. Also, let them know in no uncertain terms that you consider their actions are bordering on harassment. I said this to my manager and she's been a bit nicer when she talks to me since then.

you also have the right to tell the managers to talk to you as an adult if they expect answers. Another thing is you and the others who feel the same way start documenting their actions. If it gets worse after everything is done, talk to their superiors. They are not good managers, and the higher ups should be notified. If it's a unified thing, it just makes it better because they will pay more attention and have a good talking-to with these people.

Good luck.