QUOTE(woozle @ Dec 21 2008, 07:31 PM)
If you want you can have one and you get the one you think you want, if you don't want one he/she won't bother you.
I'd love to agree, because what you said sounds lovely and reasonable ... but, IME, not true.
I didn't pick my gods. The ones I might have chosen either never talked to me, or do so only in passing. As for not being bothered if you don't want to be - well, it's possible to entirely ignore them, if one is sufficiently determined, but I don't think anyone can conjure a relationship with a specific god for the asking. They seem to do the choosing.
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Hence things not changing for people with no belief and things often getting better with those that have belief and also hence that if you want a cruel demanding god you get one and if you want a nice friendly giving god you get one of those too. ...
Heh. My patron is just about the most laid back god I know - most of the time. And then he gives an order and, boy, had I better follow through. So is that cruel and demanding
and nice friendly and giving?
Gods aren't always so easily categorised. They have personalities as complex as ours.
As to the getting better or not - almost as soon as I became pagan I had a seriously bad experience, which went on for ten months. OK, my gods helped me during it, to some extent. But, at the time, I felt they could have done a lot more. A
lot more. But they weren't around simply to help me out of a sticky situation I'd got myself into. And they seemed more interested in whether I could get through it with honour, nerve intact. That's when they got seriously interested.
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If you try to be pushy, aloof or subservient you get shat on. I don't thing gods have a job description.
I'd say you're likely to get shat on if you don't stand up for yourself. Or if you try to cheat them, or use them.