OK......I cursed my bf other night..i was SOOOOOOOO angry with him.nothing serious just i hoped he got a flat tyre on his bike when he went out...hey presto....2 days later he complained he couldnt use his bike cause he had a flat tyre!!! Now I dont make a habit of cursing.....anyway....this thing with my best friend(now not speaking to me friend) who really hurt me....i seriously cursed her and NO I aint proud....I just get so angry inside its like a kettle boiling!! rage just gets the better of me...i dont physically lash out or break things I just THINK bad things!!! Now..I cursed her.....BAD.....(and dont anyone give me a lecture cause I KNOW!!!) i cursed that her baby(shes 6 months preggy) died at birth...... I AM NOT PROUD!!!...thing is....now I've calmed down....I still aint talking to her but can I take a curse back???? cause I honestly dont wanna hurt her baby!! if am honest I just wanna make up with her as I am missing her like mad!! but am too proud to talk to her incase I get rejected.. So...CAN A CURSE BE UNCURSED??

Well, if you cursed just by thinking it, and now you're thinking the other way, maybe job done, stop worrying? Good one on the bf by the way.

I don't think you can, I think you can just minimise the damage. The energy has already been released.

Once when I was arguing with my brother (who's a window cleaner), he told me to go take a long walk off a short pier. I retorted with 'I hope you fall off your ladder at work!'. I instantly knew that it was going to happen and I started to worry about it and spent the rest of the night trying to take it back and putting protections on my brother. A few days later, he came home from work with a bruise on his arm, he'd been sent home early after falling from the his ladder while cleaning top floor windows and had just got this one bruise. He was fine, his boss had only sent him home because it had scared him more than my brother.

if ANYTHING happens to her baby............i will just wanna curl up + die!

I really hope that doesn't happen, I was just saying what happened to me with my brother

It may be that you cannot deflect something that you generated, but someone else can and hopefully without directing it back to you.

dav

Perhaps this is the time to try breaking the ice with her again by giving her a protective thingy for the baby as an early birthday pressie? Something not obvious, maybe even just a cute toy that you charge with all the nice-and-friendly that you can manage.

And let's be honest... flat tyres are a regular occurance for bike-riders. Now if you'd wished that he'd narrowly escaped death - really narrowly - from a herd of stampeding squirrels, and it happened, then that might possible be something to worry about

SMD, I think she will be alright because even though you were angry, deep in your heart you didn't mean it, so the energy may, IMO not be so powerful. If indeed you were serious, you wouldn't be sorry for it now

And you were taught a powerful lesson me thinks, be careful what you wish for.

Im not sure that thinking something and cursing someone is the same thing, Maybe its just me.. but for anything to work.. I always feel an "action" is needed. For me that can take many forms.. casting a spell and all the actions involved in that.. or for a curse.. some sort of passing the energy on. ie. throwing it at the person, pointing it at the person...

Like I say.. it could just be me and thats how I focus what I do... but for me, a grumble in my head and the odd... "grrrr.. I hope you get squished by a truck" just doesnt do anything.

All that said. If I wanted to take something back.. or revoke it.. I would send a dispelling energy to the person I cursed. Something to break down the negative energy I sent out.

Hope that helps.

I would try talking to my ex friend..but am so paranoid of being rejected and made to look like a twat again!! PLUS I still dunno what I did to stop her talking to me in the 1st place? i've been gonna send a simply "hi, hows things?" text..but am scared!!

Instant Magic ...gotta love it. Xalle, after a while (a good while practising magic) I've found that i can do small magics just by thinking it so SMD is either pretty damned learned or extremely lucky..either way.

SMD - your best bet, just to make sure, is to make a talisman, call on a demon (if you do that) to protect the ickle 1 or just general magics to protect the little sprite...if all else fails put some symbols on the mothers stomach for protection.

Either that or there was a lot of emotion involved

I don't think it is possible to uncurse an curse. But if you're directing energy by thought, then the best course of action may be to send some healing and CLEANSING energy her way.
I don't think it can undone, but it can be cancelled out.

First off, i wouldnt say that what you did was actually a curse, as a curse is designed to stick, and loop around indefinately. its more of a hex, but still..................not even that really.

I agree with Touchstone - once you are adept at casting, you will find it fairly straightforward to gather the energy and intent to do something without any rigmarole or preparation. However - knowing your stuff to this extent also means you have to exercise even more control over yourself because when emotions are running high, the energy and the ill wish can leave you when ITS ready, whether you really want it to or not. And people with a latent talent for the craft can 'leak' even if they have no want to be a witch.
This is a classic example of why long standing witches hate to see certain types of knowledge in the hands of inexperienced people. And SMD - I will make no bones about this, I think that sending out a wish for your best friends baby to be still born is the worst kind of nasty. Not even I did that to my ex best friend of 10 years - and I had a damn site more reason to do so than a 'falling out'.
if you had the 'power' to send this out effectively then you should be able to clean up the mess without help from anyone here, and needent be asking. If it has had any influence it probably could be undone, and probably fairly easily because it was clumsy and amateurish to begin with - but you have played a VERY dangerous game indeed.

But I am not offering - every witch should learn from their mistakes and if I were you I would be hoping it isnt going to bounce back on you.
You could do a protective talisman for the baby, but what you think you have sent out may have already started a series of events that a talisman will be unable to prevent - babies arent born dead or die at birth for no reason - there are causes that lead up to it, or problems during the delivery. There are endless threads that may have already been affected - if - what you did had any effect. And thinking about it more isnt going to help - if you are that powerful it may well just add more energy to the 'spell'.
Try doing a proper working this time - and as soon as possible, with as much guilt and humility and love for your friend as you can muster - although seeing as you dont want to contact her for fear of looking a prat - that could be tricky. And try and lift the damn thing yourself that way.

I agree with Moongazer!!!
If you gonna dish it out then be prepaired to take the rap for your own actions.
Best way to take a spell apart, is the way you put it together. If you think you have cast spell by just thinking bad things then as the others say, you are very talented.... i wish it were that easy, it would save me years of study.
So it shouldnt take you long to figure out what to do to put it right then.

A witch should know how to take their own magick apart ,,, reversal.
To wish death on an inocent is spitefull an show lack of strength.

I would cast spell of protection over the lil one, take out an explode your ill wishes from existance, intercept them and ground them to nothing.
A curse take more than ill thoughts, an a hex can be dealt with.

Rain

Merry Meet

I know this is a bit semantic but does it have relevance WHO you cursed, the mother or the baby? Would you need to have cursed both?

If I was you I would have a long hard think about who you actually cursed b4 trying 2 reverse the effects of the curse.

I am sure there are more wise and experienced ppl here to advise u than me, but it was just a thought that occurred to me.

And stop beating yourself up. You can't change the past, only change the future and if you learn from it that's not all bad. I live with someone who continually beats himself up so I know a little of how you feel (having seen the effects it has on a person). Just don't do it again. As others have said all actions have consequences - ain't no such thing as a free lunch!!

Remember though, you are not a bad person, you lost your temper and we all do that. If there's anyone on this board who never loses their temper (I do it all the time into 4yr old toddler mode reversion )I will be very surprised.

It's not your thoughts that are "bad" IMO it's what u choose to do with them. My fiance disagrees, he takes the biblical pov that if a married man looks at another woman with lust he's an adulterer. IMO you actually have to do the deed. You can't always help your thoughts and mental responses but maybe count to 10 next time?

Blessed Be

White Raven