On request Ive begun a series of posts on meditation - hope thats ok with folks
Meditation First and foremost don’t worry about doing it right! There is not one way to meditate and it will not happen overnight.
Common mistakes
· Trying to clear your mind
· Force something to happen
· Over analysing the meditation
· Putting too much emphasis on doing it right
Find a quiet and comfortable place to meditate. This can be either sat on the floor, on a cushion or in a chair – even on the bed if you are comfortable. You do NOT have to sit cross-legged – just make sure you are comfortable!
Try to cut down on the amount of noise and distraction.
Try to sit straight. You can lean against a chair, wall or headboard, or if you cannot sit then lie flat on your back.
Place your hands in whatever position is comfortable. Many Buddhist meditations suggest that you place your hands cupped, right hand on top of left with thumbs just touching. This allows for a flow of energy throughout the body.
Meditation is not always a “ religious” experience. You can call on whatever source/ deity you like if it helps.
Above all meditation takes time and practice. Having a focus does help but primarily learning to set the scene, take time out and observing breathing is a far more useful method of starting off.
We all meditate naturally in some way shape or form. An artist or musician will enter into a semi meditative state when creating or performing a work of art or symphony. The concentration and focus lulls them into this state.
Meditation is a bridge between the inner and outer self, the conscious and unconscious mind, thus the word “ meditation” is akin to “mediatory” meaning the unifying of two aspects.
This is a vastly simplistic assessment of what meditation is, but at its most basic form this observation holds true. True meditation, the pursuit of it as a discipline is extremely complex and takes a lifetime to master – remember the Buddhist monks who devote their lives to the pursuit of an enlightened state!
Wordsworth wrote at Tintern Abbey of this state of mind as:
“ That serene and blessed mood
In which the affections gently lead us on –
Until, the breath of this corporeal frame
And even the motion of our human blood
Almost suspended, we are laid asleep
In body, and become a living soul”
Meditation is however a step-by-step process and our motivation in beginning this path are highly individual.
You may wish to learn meditation in order to:
· Clear your mind of an emotion such as anger or frustration
· Learn to relax
· Pursue a “ guided meditation” which depends upon visualisation. In this a scene is set mentally and a journey undertaken – the tape that I did “ The Three Faces of the Goddess” led me on a pathway and set tasks for the listener.
· Perform an intent such as sending out healing or resolving a problem
There are so many reasons, whys and wherefores – so decide initially what you wish to achieve and then take it slowly.
The group that I used to run was made up of a number of different people that used varying triggers for meditation. Some brought a piece of poetry or art, a situation they wished to explore or even a simple breathing technique for the group to try. We each took turns to lead and learnt a lot!! Most of the group was experienced in some form of meditation or yoga and so the techniques were already there. We always began with a simple relaxation to set the scene, in a quiet room with candles and NO distractions!
Starters Orders · Set the scene – find a calm and quiet place that you feel at ease in. Set the room out as you need. This can be darkening the room, lighting candles, putting on a favourite (relaxing)
piece of music. Sit or lie down to that you are comfortable.
· Use a simple relaxation technique – the clench and release systematically from head to foot is a very useful exercise. Sit or lie and travel through your body a bit at a time, consciously tightening and then releasing till you feel heavy and at ease.
· Breathing – keep it simple and rhythmic. If you find this difficult then count up to eight or ten as you draw in breath, and then release to the same count. If you repeat this 8 or 9 times then a pattern will emerge.
Visualisation Learning to visualise is one of the most useful methods of active or meditation with intent. It helps us to control the mind and provide a focus.
To do this imagine a scene and build it up in detail. Imagine the sight, sound, colours and smells of the place. Then step into that scene – feel the warmth or cold, the sounds and smells.
Enjoy this for a short time and then slowly withdraw.
You can employ this method to deal with situations that you need to resolve. For example, a work or life situation that is causing you problems. Watch yourself deal with the situation as an observer.
Neuro linguistic programming calls this the “meta mirror” exercise, whereby you create a scene and stand to one side watching, then take a step back and observe again and so on. You then end up far away and able to deal with a situation with calm rather than being “ plugged in “ as it were to the emotions of the situation!