I'm very very close to my Totem Animals.!
I Have to recommend this book,
Medicine Cards~the way of Discovery
thru your animal spirits by Jamie SamsThis book helped me alot. Basically, it comes with a deck of cards, and if you meditate and pick cards, according to the book, those are your totem animals.
She says we have 9 totem animals, and in the deck you pick 7.
They represent, each direction and above and below. The other 2, will have to come to you, by dreaming, meditating, etc.
The book has descriptions and meanings for many many animals.
Very fascinating and for me, very accurate.
As someone said before, some animals may not seem like you, but may actually be yours and can help teach you some lessons, you need to know.
My main animal totem, came to me yrs ago, before, the book even.
She is very powerful and always always with me. She always protects me.
My belief is that you have your main animal totems, the 9.
Then there are other animals/birds,fish, etc that come to us, when we need to learn a lesson or to help guide us... For example, one day, while pondering some main events, in my life and needing guidance, I passed a rare beautiful blue heron, in the creek.. being my stubborn self

, I ignored it, but.. the next day.. there she was again. I looked her up, and found she had the Exact lessons, I needed to learn.. and the guidance I needed, at that time.
This is just one example, its happened many times before and always special.
If you live in the country, you'll usually see alot of the same animals, but eventually you learn to discern, which ones appear, when needed.. or maybe you'll run into them, over and over, in the same place, or when you're thinking on it.

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How do they help? By guiding and protecting me, by sharing their lessons and behavoir patterns. They're teachers.
They are always protecting me, and I have them with me, in my visualizations and spells and whenever I have need.. or not... they're simply always with me.
I never tell anyone, my main one, simply as a protection thing.
I just find Jamie Sams book, to be really excellent.
hope this helps

Blessings Whispered~